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Changing Your Environment

Updated: Feb 21


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Every day, we face tons of options. They bombard us, from when to get out of bed to what we should do next.


Some of these choices are tough. Others require patience and dedication. And then, there are the tempting choices that we try to resist.


They can creep up on us when we don't realize it. By the time we do, it's too late. Like any other cautionary tale, we end up falling prey to certain choices because of the environmental cues around us.


We all have come from different aspects of life but we all can relate. I've experienced a lot in my life from death up close and personal to losing friends that you hung out with on a daily that you barely talk to anymore. One thing that I have realized is that you can't make someone do anything. If they have your best interest at heart and truly care for that person, you will hear from them every now and then. In my eyes it's no love lost we all went on different paths but being away from my hometown for 6 years I realized that everyone isn't your friend and a lot of people are waiting on your downfall. They waiting on your downfall to having something to talk about I'm not saying this is my case but just talking to different people from different aspects of life this is how it's been. I don't understand why it's like that but I have an idea why but it's cool. My thoughts on the matter are that you were friends at one point and they were accustomed to what you were doing but as soon as you try to better yourself that's where the disconnect comes in. If you were truly friends it shouldn't matter which lane you or them chose you should support them no matter what whether it was right or wrong. In a wrong situation, all you can do is speak your peace to try to make a change, but if they are not willing, it's not on you if something happens. But that doesn't mean you need to x that person out if you are friends you suppose to support each other. You would never know if that one talk of good advice you give could change a person's life for the better. We need to stop advising people to what they want to hear instead of just giving them the straight-up truth. I know people that's been locked up and got out and been doing better but it seems that we all seem to fall back in the life we were in when the trouble hit. At the end of the day if your keep doing the same thing you are going to keep getting the same results. I know a lot of people are not going to understand this but it's true. you are whom you hang with and from my perspective I was one of those people and till this day I still think about it but my whole life has changed. So what I think about is it worth it. I know being a felon or ex-con can be hard but those are decisions that you made and you have to deal with them. Does the world need to get over that YES how can a person make a mistake and try to right that wrong when the world doesn't even try to give them that chance? That's a question that we need to ask the government. But I'm only one person to make the change we all need to stand up. To be honest, I know people who have moved from their hometown after years of a troublesome life and they are doing a whole lot better. If you feel where I'm coming from leave a comment and we will discuss the matter at hand I want all different perspectives. I want a conversation with at least 5 people over the phone or air that we can broadcast. Holla at me

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